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Working with negative person

You might have this experience sometimes.
These kind of person is easy to recognize, he/she is full of judgement, comes in three flavours :
judgment of them self , judgment of others :
'He is so stupid', 'I can't believe she wears that !', 'what a jerk !'
and judgement of experience :
'This movie is terrible', 'The theater is so boring', 'I hate that kind of job'.
Being able to everyday sit and work with them is a challenge.
I'm not living in Polyana myself, but like it or not they colors your experience in a daily basis, and sometimes bringing some of the negativity home.
First I always have to make it clear, that I do not want to entertain their version of life.
I will confronted them that I don't agree or whatever to make him/her clear my position.
If I still have to face this poisonous energy, I will just observe without judging, what experience in my mind and my body when I experience this flows of negative energy.
Does it make my blood runs faster, does it make it tense ?, what reaction it is in my head.
Without condemning whatever he/she said.
Funny is when I do this in regular basis, when I see him/her differently, what I saw is changed.
He/she began to at least try to match with my positive energy.
and that is my friend called 'The entanglement'
Every one of us is connected.